When facilitating group work, I like to start off by telling a little bit of my story. This is done without potential triggers but presented in such a way that others feel comfortable with me, and they realize they are in a safe space. Additionally, I think sharing one’s story breaks down barriers and also gets rid of any hierarchy that may unintentionally take place. I think sometimes in settings such as this, this can occur and it’s important for everyone involved, especially those facilitating and leading, to remain humble and to come with a heart posture of servitude and comradery. For me, I am no different than the people in attendance. I am someone just like them, who has been through what they’ve been through, it’s just that I am on the other side and have made it through the “desert” so to speak. As I mentioned in my cover letter, it can be empowering to know that there are people who have come through and are on the other side of this. Sometimes it is hard to see beyond pain. That is why community is so important.
My project that I would facilitate is ceramics. I would use air-dry clay, as it is accessible and there is no firing that needs to take place. It would be titled something along the lines of “The House.” I was meditating and thinking about what it means to feel safe and how that sense of safety is sometimes taken from us. The house can represent a literal house, in which we feel safe, or it can be our bodies, which houses our heart, soul, and minds, or it can be something totally different. The House can represent so many things, so this is truly up to the individual, what this house means. I would want those in my group to envision their “safe” house/space. I have an easy template, which I will upload for you to see, in which people would create an air-dry clay house. Additionally, there will be a small space at the bottom to place a small candle. This represents “light,” the light to bring you out of the darkness, the light within us, etc. This is a reminder of healing.
In addition to the house form (which again, the template makes this easy- so that anyone regardless of artistic skill can make), I will include paints, magazine photographs and words, stickers, etc. that they can put on the outside to decorate, but most importantly, to provide representation and reminders of what makes this “house” safe.
As an example, say that, for someone, what makes their house safe is loving and accepting their body as it is. It means prioritizing their self-care, practicing mindfulness, and always prioritizing their faith practices. Therefore, on the outside of this “house” they could paint or cut out magazine words such as “faith,” “God,”. They engrave/carve faith symbols, cut out pictures of spirit animals, have photos of people that represent safe family. Etc.
The act of using clay can really center a person and keep them present in their body, this is something that people with trauma really struggle with, so I think using the air-dry clay is a huge plus. Additionally, the act of creating and imaging this “safe space” whatever that may be, whatever that looks like, is a powerful example of a mindfulness technique of literally imagining your safe space, which also grounds your mind and body. I believe it would also give people a sense of control over their present and their future and be a reminder to hold onto and grasp onto those things that make them feel safe.
I have uploaded two photos. One of a rough template and one of what the finished form would look like